“For your royal husband delights in your beauty; honour him, for he is your Lord. ” Psalms 45:11 (NLT)
I see you, I know you have fire for the lord. I SEE you and feel your desire to please the Lord. You spend endless hours in the house of God, doing what you believe is the right thing.
You value your pastors opinion over that your husbands.
In fact your pastors wife has more wisdom than your husband and she has said when you are fasting you should consecrate yourself to God, so no sex while fasting.
Your church says you should cover your hair, not wear trousers and not use extensions you do as they say but your husband desires that you do the opposite.
Be warned God is not mocked whatever you sow so shall you reap.
Your husband is your head and your Lord, If that statement alone makes you angry that is the spirit of jezebel at work. Trust me I have been there before.
Once you are married only your husband has the right to tell you what and what not to do. Let’s go to the word of God; the one time Sarah told Abraham what to do look at the disaster it caused, Ishmael was born. Why am I even going to that story lets start from the beginning when Eve told Adam what to do, look at the outcome. The world is still suffering from their self taught wisdom.
God created men to be kings and priests in their homes let them be! I see you spiritual mama; but once you are home with your family submit to your husband. You cannot be more holy than your husband.
There is an anointing on their head for Leadership, just keep praying for them to make the right decisions. It’s not easy but God will give you wisdom.
If your husband says he is too tired to go to church it’s ok to have service at home while he heads the service, God is everywhere.
Don’t always think you are the holiest one in the relationship just because you think or even see your husband do things that are not Christian like. They answer to God not you. You should not disrespect them with the excuse of trying to tell them off when they do wrong. Stop it.
Be submissive does not mean to be a slave; it means to be respectful, to understand and accept that your husband is Lord over you.
Except it is against THE WORD OF GOD (not your pastor, prophet or parents) whatever your husband says is right! It is only the word of God that remains the same, beware of teachers, preachers, prophets and false men of God that say they heard the spirit of God. Check every advice with the word of God. Your husband comes first! If it’s 4pm and you are still in church since 8am; if your husband is not the pastor you have no business in the church go home and cook for your husband.
Men like to be serviced, pampered and catered for. Take care of your man. Don’t give another woman access into your home.
Wisdom wisdom wisdom get wisdom!